How to run a book swapping book group

books swapped at the book group

It was just after we arrived in Paris, I was trawling through Meet Up when I landed on the book swapping book group page. I love books, and we had shipped our whole book collection to Paris, so this was something I had to try! And maybe, as well as getting a few new books, I might make a friend or two.

When is a book group not a book group?

The book swapping book group is perfect.

A book group where I didn’t have to read a book, but bring an old, beloved book I was willing to part with, and in return, come home replenished with new literary treasures.

For my first meet up, November last year, I lost my bearings and wandered around rue du Faubourg St Martin, looking aimlessly for Les Vinaigriers restaurant.

I arrived forty-five minutes late, wracked with nerves, hoping I’d find someone to swap my books with, and desperately hoping  that they didn’t think I had really bad taste in reading.

But they had waited patiently for this London newbie to Paris. The food turned out to be great and the company warm and welcoming.

I have been back to pretty much all the book swapping meet ups. And some of the books I have chosen to give away include: The Lacuna by Barbara Kingsolver, Brick Lane by Monica Ali, Happily Ever After by Jenni Diski. I have even unleashed Caitlin Moran’s How To Be a Woman. I always return home with quite a haul!

I love the book swap as well as the books I get to try a new restaurant, drink lots of wine and meet new people. And yes I’ve made friends through the book swapping book group.

When I get back to London I’d love to set up a book swapping book group. Eat, drink and read. Seriously what’s not to love!

How to host a book swapping book group

I wrote about this book group in my Mid-life making friends post, and I received a quite a few comments about it. If you like the idea of hosting a book swapping book group; here’s how we run ours:

The host

A good book swapping book group needs a good host.

Ours in Melissa, a book lover who adores food and wine. It’s host’s job to set the date for the meet ups, choose and book the restaurant, welcome book swappers and kick of the book swapping session.

There is no chairing discussions about the ins and outs of plot or character dynamics. Hosting is purely a social function.

Frequency

Our book swapping book group meetings are held monthly, with a break for the summer. At the end of the meet up we set the date for the next book swap – we are that keen.

Venue

Now, this is critical.

Melissa our foodie host searches out the restaurants. We’re happy to trust her judgement.

Each meet up we gather in a different venue and we haven’t been disappointed. We’ve booked swapped over Thai, Ethiopian, Basque, Italian, traditional French food, and a place that did trendy small pates (we may have to go back there again). It’s a chance for us to get out and discover new places. Also it makes people want to come back and attracts newcomers. It isn’t just about the books you know.

The book swap is our night out, away from the kids, cooking dinner, mopping floors. We make the most of it. Three courses is a must, and wine is essential, we can’t do book swap unless we are consuming excellent French wine (if you’re pregnant, you are excused).

Talking about the books

There’s no rushing our food.

We leave talking about the books until after the main course is cleared away and before the dessert arrives (French desserts are just far too distracting!). This is the perfect window of opportunity for book discussion.

We take it in turns to talk about our chosen books:

  • Giving a short synopsis of the plot (helps to have read the book!)
  • Why are we giving it away, why might someone else like to read it
  • Did we enjoy it, even if we didn’t someone else might

Once books have been discussed, we swap, pudding arrives, and we eat again.

And for next time

We make a date for the next book swap, and leave happy.

Getting the word out

Our book swapping meetings aren’t closed, it’s open to any mum or dad who wants to join, whether it’s one meet up or all. There have been book swaps with three people, book swaps with over eight.

There are the regulars book swap groupies (yup me!) and people who want to try the restaurant that’s been picked, or because it’s on a night they can do, but so long as books are brought for swapping, people are welcome.

Meet Up and Facebook are the chosen shout out methods – works us!

Let me know if you get a book swapping book group going, any questions – just post a comment.

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42 Comments

    • It’s been a brilliant way to meet like minded people – even better when there’s good food and wine thrown in!

  1. This is a really fab idea!! Like you say, great food, wine, the chance to meet new people, as well as a haul of books-there seems absolutely nothing not to love here!! I’ve just started reading again-the children have been so full on, and any spare time I did have, was spent working on the blog, I hadn’t actually read a book since before the smallest was born 2&1/2 years ago! I’ve just bought the two latest JK Rowling crime novels (using the Robert Gailbraith pseudonym,) because the last book I had read before the smallest came was her first one of that series!! I’d love to try this, it sounds like brilliant fun!!
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    • I have to say the book swap isn’t my idea but it’s still a fab way to run a book group. I love those Robert Gailbraith books they’re fab. Kate Atkinson also writes crime fiction and they’re brilliant too – well worth a read!

    • The book swap is such a great way to recycling and re-energise your book collection and to get you reading again, well worth a go!

    • I love the #SharingtheBlogLove linky. I love to read too, but these days only manage to grab about 5-10 minutes each night. But it’s better than nothing!

    • Now that’s my problem – all this blogging is seriously eating up my reading time!

  2. A swap club’s a great idea. I read quickly but I’m not sure I’d always want to read the books set. #sharingthebloglove

    • The swap is a fab idea, you just swap books you have loved, and return, only if you like them, get other books you might want to read. It’s pretty much a win-win. Happy reading!

  3. Oh this sounds like a fantastic idea. I love the twist on a regular book group. I have actually been in a few book clubs. They were great but I always felt such pressure to read the books in a certain timeframe and that didn’t always happen. I love this idea. And the good food and wine make it sounds even more genius. Hugs Lucy xxxx
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    • I wish i had thought up the idea but it wasn’t me! It’s been in Paris for a number of years, but such a brilliant idea. I agree, so much less pressure to read a book and turn up prepared to have a discussion – bring out the food and wine and enjoy!

  4. I have never heard of this, what a clever idea. Love that it has an added bonus of wine and socialising 🙂 Good luck with setting something up in London when you go back, i would certainly be interested if you do xx

  5. I love this idea! I read almost exclusively on my kindle these days, but I do love having an actual book in my hand #bigpinklink

    • I’m a kindle convert, and there’s some great reads I’m dying to swap. I’ve decided to get some vintage versions of my kindle reads to swap.

    • Hey set up your own, you could have themes – cook book swap, go to a French restaurant, swap classics, what ever!!! Go on do it!!

  6. I love this idea – I love introducing people to books that I’ve really loved. Holding it in a restaurant each time appeals massively to me as well. I desperately want to read more (in fact, I’ve had the ‘new’ Kate Atkinson on my shelf for I think around a year and a half now), but never quite manage to find the time. I think like Laura above I’d love to think about doing something like this once Max is a little bit older. Thanks so much for joining us again at #SharingtheBlogLove
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    • I love Kate Atkinson – you must read it! It’s tough when they’re little to find reading time, or just the energy to consume a good book. So when Max is a little older – get the book swap book group started! You’ll love it!

    • Yes, it’s been great to be introduced to new writers. I meet quite a few Americans and Canadians so have got introduced to their writers. Likewise I’ve introduced people to British writers I have enjoyed reading.

  7. I’ve never heard of a book swapping book group before but it sounds great. It’s a really good way to meet like minded people. Glad you’ve met some new friends. Jo x

    • I hadn’t hear of the concept before I arrived here, and I love it. It’s been such a brilliant way to meet new people. Thanks for stopping by.

  8. I attend a book club but to be honest it is getting a bit stale and could do with a shake up, this sounds like a great idea. I have hundreds of books some dating back to my time reading English at University so it would be a good way to recycle them. Glad that you are still finding great ways to meet new people. #fortheloveofBLOG

  9. This sounds like so much fun! I would love to do this as it sounds much more social than a book club discussing books all evening but pretty much all the books I buy new these days are on my kindle! Hard to swap a kindle! #fabfridaypost
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    • That’s my challenge, but I’ve decided to buy some second hand books to swap! I’m not missing my night out!

  10. I would love to start a book swapping group but I never find the time. This was really helpful in explaining how to start one, I think that when the children are a little older I will finally get round to sorting one! #fabfridaypost

    • I do hope you do get a book swapping group together, it’s a great way of getting hold of new books and recycling your old ones.

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